You gotta document this kind of behavior and you gotta tell someone in charge.
Illegitimi Non Carborundum.
Good luck.
Nah bro thats wild
It usually got them to stop
I mean…there’s not really much you can come back with at that point.
Except a fist.
Let’s use our minds, shall we?
Violence is never the answer.
Violence is a question.
The answer is yes.
(This is a joke)
So headbutt? Obviously joking in case it’s not obvious haha
Yeah, if they’re a fragile little man, that might be their answer.
I think, mostly, they were just jealous and bewildered at the fact that I could pull more tail then them dressed like that. Ladies (and dudes) really like confidence.
Edit: I just remembered OP said they are 13. I didn’t find confidence in myself until, probably, closer to 15. At 13, I remember wishing so bad and trying so hard to be like the other kids. I’m very glad I eventually realized they weren’t actually the cool kids.
And, even now, the confidence has a tendency to waiver.
Whoa. I was saying that the bully will respond to your implying he is hitting on you - by hitting you.
Colloquial “you”. Not you you.
Fixed it. Language is weird.
Do people even think about this saying? Has anyone heard of wars? Those solve questions that are not solvable through dialog. Once the question has been solved - the war is generally over. So saying violence is never the answer is clearly not true.
Morals and actual good tips
HeAD BuTT
Caution - A head-butt can be fatal. This is not recommended unless you plan on going to jail.
guys, this is a conversation about helping someone with bullying. lets not turn it into a boxing ground for ideologies and half-hearted jokes.
Yea you’re right
Sorry Marco
Further reinstate that not caving into them…last year at work (I work at a theme park), I was out doing something while park was open…had school groups in the park which is usually never a fun sign as it brings out the rowdy bunch. I had a group of teens approach me in a mocking tone “hey, nice sunglasses! (was wearing some cheap no-name glasses) can we ask you a couple questions?”
Meanwhile I see a phone out. I initially try not to be rude and ask what’s up, trying to just guest relate. Moment I see the phone go up and they begin to ask me stupid questions and ask if they can record me, I quickly buzz kill their moment by saying “nope we are not doing this… sorry got things to do” and walk away. They were looking to see what they could get out of me likely for their social media shenanigans. But they got nothing aside from me walking away back to an employees only area.
May not be exactly bullying but it’s still dealing with people trying to make themselves feel better by getting reactions out of others.
Tanjiro style
That’s crazy! Kids are awfully bold these days. We would have never thought to try anything like that. I guess social media brings a whole new dimension to the equation. What they don’t realize is that they’re only recording the proof to get themselves in trouble.