Get the Defibrillator, cuz you just Killed me. No doubt I will be better in a minute.
Now that a number of us have literally taken turns pulling on the rope and gently lifting Alexs’ feet off the ground, you are handing him a Monopoly Get outta Jail card.
Ok, let me help you clear the cloud of doubt from your mind.
Lets go by what we know. (everybody please understand that I am not a first hand Witness to any of this. So what I propose is based solely from the Information that has come to light during the course of this 'where’s my stuff Saga).
Ok, here is what we seemingly know. You sent Alex $170 for yoyos, including shipping. You have never received anything for your $170.
It is ‘possible’ but almost impossible to believe that Alex is not aware you have received Nothing
One of his ‘friends/team players’ has actually come on the Board to acknowledge that no doubt, Alex has some 'Do the right thing, Performance issues).
If by some miracle, up until recently, Alex may not even have been aware of this pending ‘where’s my stuff’ situation.
But now, this week, this last few days, today, tomorrow, Alex has to be up to speed on all this.
It is much easier and much Faster to send money to Germany, than it is to send yoyos.
So at this point in this Drama, Alex should have already or should within the next day or two (max) be getting in touch with you.
He should state that he is fully aware ‘now’ of a ‘haven’t received your package yet problem’.
He should either admit to you he has been Slacking and will immediately send your stuff to you, with expedited shipping. And send you a copy of the shipping info/receipt.
Or he should immediately provide you with a Time stamped receipt, showing you when he sent the package off to you. The Date doesn’t matter at this point. Your name and address in Germany should be on the receipt.
…IF, he can’t bring himself to do either, then the most Satisfactory solution is SIMPLE. <> send back your Money… Paypal, wire transfer, whatever. Immediately.
If Alex doesn’t have sufficient funds to send you back ‘your’ money(understand that if he hasn’t completed his half of your deal, then he is not sending back his money, he is sending back your money), then Alex does not have a Yoyo Business. He is just a Dude selling yoyos.
There should be an open channel of communication between You and Alex. If he has nothing to hide, then why is he so friggn hard to find?
His Reputation is worth 170 bucks? He won’t jump into the Ring and just be a Man and Square things up?
He is such a Wuss that he will let his guys Stunt Double for him?
Bottom line…1. If he sent a Package to you, he should provide proof, etc. 2. If he didnt send the Package, then fess up and send it out or don’t even bother fess in up, just Send back ‘Your’ 170 bucks.
Lets All forget any and all preconceived notions about Alex and his shaky history. At this point, lets just consider the complaint that Started this 7 page Thread. Lets just focus on Alex with 170 bucks in his pocket that belongs to a guy in Germany.
GNNy, putting the burden of proof/benefit of doubt up for consideration makes you a Horrible witness in your own defense.
Every deal has 2 parts: what you do and what he does. You have done part one(money sent)(even though Paypal will do nothing, they can provide proof in your Paypal history that you sent 170 bucks to RecRev).
Now Alex has to Complete his half of the Deal. If he doesn’t, then it wasn’t a Deal at all. It was Fraud.
Paging, Alex Kim. Alex Kim. White Courtesy phone in the Lobby. Cleanup on Aisle 5.
Period.
Note>>> just a little insight on why I think the way I do on the Subject of ‘Deals’.
I have been building and or rebuilding Cars and Motorcycles for 45 years now. 45 years ago, when my Dad could see it was obvious that I was gonna be buying and selling: cars, bikes, parts, he gave me some pretty strong words of advice. He basically boiled it down to 3 things.
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When you make a Deal, never Lie. If you don’t Lie, you don’t have to remember what you said.
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When you enter into a Deal, always deal with somebody in a way, that if they meet you again 5 years later, they will be happy to see you. That way you know everything was on the Square.
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If you play fair and Don’t Burn people on Deals, you won’t have to keep looking over your shoulder, to see who is coming up behind you with an Axe handle.
Reputation and Honor are not exactly the same thing. But there is not much Honor in a Bad Reputation. And without Honor, you are Nothing.
It is possible that anybody can change. But if given the opportunity to change an Obvious shortcoming and they fail to take the Initiative, nobody has to literally put an X on their Forehead. They Identify themselves.
I don’t want anybody to Fail. I don’t personally want to throw anybody under the Bus.
But Burning another yoer for Peanuts?
Nah, I don’t think so…