Yo there are windups that are super easy to learn and I think it makes yoyoing more enjoyable because you can keep it spinning more and it’s just quicker. If you don’t want to learn also, that’s cool! But you shouldn’t be embarrassed about that.
Here’s a topic I made asking people about the restarts they use.
Edit-I also noticed you made this topic right after I made mine and used a lot of the same language I did and I felt bad reading it! I didn’t ask about restarts to make you feel embarrassed. If you want any help, I’ll do my best to help you.