To give you an example, I love the Crucible. It is much more sensitive to movements than my heavier yoyos, and allows for a different type/style of play.
But I hate that it make the rest of my collection feel too heavy.
I’d also say responsives should be somewhat lighter than unresponsives, though I couldn’t pin down exactly why… I guess it makes more sense in terms of looping, imagine looping a 67g yo-yo?
The weight distribution makes a big difference in how it feels on the string. A more rim weighted throw feels much heavier and more sluggish with direction changes. So, it’s highly variable. 63-64g for rim weighted throws or 65-66g for more mid weight throws seems to be my desired range.
I’ve played yoyos ~50g (Crucible) and ~68g (Abduction) that are fantastic for different reasons. And of course, the Float, which is right in the middle at 59.5g.