This is certainly not Rocket Science. But all this banter makes it apparent there is a block wall right in the middle of the Brain matter.
Let me simplify this process with 2 distinct avenues>
- A guy is selling a yoyo. Before he posts up the selling price, he decides what he wants to pocket for the yoyo sale, after fees and postage. Once he has a number then he posts the ‘complete price’.
…For sale. One Orange Overdrive Draupnir. In new condition with box. No damage. Tiny vibe on string. No fingernail vibe. $150 shipped Priority Mail/insured for value/fees included.
- A guy sees a yoyo he want to buy. The Seller states he wants $150 for it. He states the condition and such. But he says nothing about fees and shipping. The potential buyer simply contacts the Seller and asks if the $150 includes shipping and fees?
The potential buyer decides at that time, whether the Sellers’ answer is a number he wants to deal with? If not, counter offer or pass.
NEVER ask for friends or family.
Paypal is a Worldwide Money moving Business. They earn their fees by providing their services.
…If you use their Services then you Pay for them.
It is completely ‘Flake-Mode’ to get Cheap and feel it is Fine to use Paypal for Free.
I’ve seen guys post up about Paypal making too much money so why not weasel out of paying them whenever you can?
So… here is your to do list if you think that way>
Put some gas in your car. Because you have a busy day ahead.
I want you to go to: An Apple Store, McDonalds, Starbucks, Costco, Walmart, and any other dozen Big money making businesses that come to mind.
At every stop, ask for the Manager. Tell the Manager that you want free stuff because you feel they make too much money. So they should be willing to cough up free stuff. Tell the Managers that you arbitrarily make decisions on whether you should continue paying for services that successful Companies provide.
Warning… before you leave the house, put a thick book down the back of your pants. So when they start Kicking your rear end out the doors, it will hurt less.
Paypal is not your Enemy. Paypal is just part of doing business.
…If you are willing to spend $100, $200, $300, or more. Why get ‘budget minded’ on the smallest part of the Deal?