I bought a bapezilla from @Yoyoman13371337. Came in the exact condition described and although it did take awhile to come I understand because I live on the other side of the world. Would not hesitate to buy from him again.
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It is not my intention to go into the merits of the situation and of this dispute but on this point you have written an incorrect thing.
Often sales are made between people who do not know each other absolutely and if you choose a service like Paypal you do it also because it is a service that offers a very specific and important guarantee against a percentage to pay.
if you, asking the buyer to make a payment such as āsending money to family and friendsā instead of āpayment for the purchase of goods and servicesā, not only do you pay the buyer the costs for the Paypal service but you do it to renounce forever all that series of services and guarantees that this tool offers (possibility to open a dispute, turn it into a complaint and have the possibility of obtaining a full refund even in the face of the sellerās total insolvency ā¦ if things go end badly for reasons not attributable to the buyer)
This must be clear and if you do not explain it clearly, you are committing an impropriety.
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I just give a choice to the buyer and showing, that it doesnāt matter for me, how he will send. The main for me that I donāt pay fee. In both cases I donāt. I thought itās obviously.
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Some of my constant buyers send me money as family and friends or cover the fee without any requests because they know the conditions of work with me. If sending as family and friends was the obligatory condition from my side I could understood mistrust, but when I say - cover the fee or send ff(as I know, there is a fee only for sender and itās really fewer than gs) it can mean only one- I donāt really care how he will send, I care about fee.
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This:
I say - cover the fee or send ff(as I know, there is a fee only for sender and itās really fewer than gs) it can mean only one- I donāt really care how he will send, I care about fee.
Is different from this:
And yes, Iām asking to cover the fee or send money as family and friends- it means, that I lay the fee on the buyer and nothing more.
If you specified the first one, then sorry.
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May you please tell the difference?
To be honest, I canāt see it
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maybe I misunderstood for linguistic reasons ā¦ ā¦
And yes, Iām asking to cover the fee or send money as family and friends- it means, that I lay the fee on the buyer and nothing more.
this makes me understand that in asking the buyer to make the payment as sending to family and friends you are also explaining that in addition to taking charge of the costs of the service, ānothing moreā, will happen
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I see. Thanks
Iāll try to explain more concretely next time
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thanks to you and as I said it probably could depend on my understanding due to the translation 
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Iāve bought from @Yoyoman13371337 before. I have a package he is currently holding as well. He was honest and forthcoming about the shipping situation. He also made me aware I could send G&S, so long as I cover the fees he has no problem with it. I am confident he will ship it to me when the mail is moving again. I have always found him to be an excellent communicator and he responds quickly to my messages, sometimes there is a short wait due to time zones, but I donāt expect him to be up all night watching the forums.
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Iām wondering what i lied about
That Iām asking to send money as ff for fraudulent manipulations, because in dialog Iām asking to send as ff or cover the fee.
Read peopleās opinion and understand that you are wrong
Where did i say fraudulent or manipulation? I quoted the B / S / T Rules.
āA payment sent via āGoods & Servicesā means PayPal will support you when something is lost or not received as expected. If seller feels it necessary they should include the PayPal āfeesā as part of purchase price. Paying using āFriends & Familyā is at your own risk.ā
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Ā«Oh yeah, and hes going to try to swindle you in to sending the money over Paypal as a gift because paypal nor this yoyo forum will cover you if something goes wrong.Ā»- this isnāt truth, Iām not trying to swindle somebody to send me as ff. Iām giving a choice and show, that i donāt care how you are sending. So I said you are lying.
These are you words.
And why are you refer to the fact that Iām breaking the rules of bst? Just for showing that Iām bad human and seller or what? Itās looking really disgusting from your side, because it havenāt stoped you to contact to me and buy my throw.
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I think we are over fifty days now, package still has not arrived. Iāve never done business with Reuben, and I donāt trust easily, but communication lines have remained open and Reuben has been responsive. Also, I donāt think he nor I have been defensive nor reactive in our communications. All of this helps keep anxiety down, imho. As Reuben stated, patience goes a long way as we are in the middle of a global pandemic. I can see I might be much more anxious and much less patient re: the time it is taking to receive the package if Reubenās communication was nonexistent, extremely slow, defensive or combative. Fortunately that has not been the case.
I havenāt purchased anything from @Yoyoman13371337, however, I can attest that international shipping is a mess right now. Iām waiting on a package from an international seller that I know and trust 100%. I have tracking number, know it was shipped, but, is hung up somewhere. Stuff happens in a pandemic.
From all Iāve seen, @Yoyoman13371337 seems legit and upstanding. My only advice to all involved is pay with G&S. I feel strongly enough about it that I choose not to deal with sellers who either specify F&F or add fees for G&S, or spring it when you think you have a deal āby the way, I see you paid G&S, can you cover the fee?ā
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this
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