Stuff like this tears me up.
I honestly have no doubts that this started with the best of intentions, but then ended up with a little taken here, and a little taken there leading to bad habits and more bad choices…
Heath,
I want you to know, I’m not mad at you. But I am sad. And I’m sure you are too. I hope that more than you being sad for getting caught, you’re sad at the broken trust and the missed opportunities to help people.
More-so, if you simply aren’t in a position to make this right and change the situation right away. Let us know.
Let us know a plan for what you can do to make this right. What timelines do you have?
Show us a plan for how much you can donate each month until this is paid back.
Is our trust broken? Yes. But I’d rather you restore that, than for us to lose a member of the community over this.
I’d rather not demand blood and jail time… I’d rather find ways that we can hold you accountable to make this right, and put you in a position to work hard to continue to make this right.
Please make restitutions and work hard to rectify this.
I don’t condemn you, but I don’t condone these actions (as I hope you don’t either)
Just know that just because you’ve hit a low-point, doesn’t mean there’s no hope. The hope is to make this right, redeem the situation, and be transparent about everything.
Dr. Yo-Yo said it best in that a heartfelt, contrite apology would have gone a lot further as a starting point than another cover-up.
I don’t want to shame you. You feeling bad, being publicly shamed, or being punished doesn’t bring back the loved ones we’ve lost to cancer.
You working hard and tirelessly to make restitutions doesn’t either… but your hard work can prevent further loss.
Please do the right thing.
Sincerely,
Adam E. Brewster