Food for thought…
…You are at a baseball game. It’s your favorite team and they’re losing in a sixth inning.
you get up and leave
… you wake up in the middle of the night your neighbor’s house is on fire. You and the other neighbors get any source of water you can start trying to put the fire out. you decide your team effort is not making enough progress so you just quit and say what’s the use your let the house burn down.
… you are a member of the yo-yo community forum. People from all over the civilized planet frequent the forum. Sometimes things get controversial. Most members just watch. Some speak up with their thoughts and ideas. The mods jump in to the threads and decide to make things disappear. A small number of the members get frustrated and decide to throw in the towel.
…. What do all these examples have in common? They simply prove that no matter what you are doing life it boils down to two things. You are a part of the problem, or part of the solution.
If somethings important, you don’t step away from the problem. You become part of the solution. You can’t participate in being part of the solution if you decide the wind is blowing the wrong way and you just don’t have the initiative to lean into it and keep moving forward.
Quitting always seems to be easier than leaning into the problem and trying to get things turned around. To speak up and put it out there. To get other people, talking and thinking and contacting YoYoExpert or each other or just straight up posting and trying to make things better.
Posting up that you’re saying goodbye is not the answer. To me that simply means you never really cared for the yo-yo community anyway. Because if you did, you wouldn’t step away from adversity, controversy or rumors based on often unsupported information.
Speak up and be heard. Quitting eliminates the possibility of progress. Quitting eliminates the possibility of a better forum.
It’s the World Series… Ninth inning, two outs two strikes down by one run. But until that third strike is called it’s still a game.
I love the forum… the game is not over… Step up to the plate… Let’s play ball…
Quitting is not a solution. Quitting is a lack of fortitude, initiative, and just plain heart. If you love something, if you enjoy the community banter, you do what you can to keep it going. You do what you can to try to improve it. You contact YoYoExpert directly and voice your concerns. You don’t say I quit. Quitting is the easy way out. I always lean into the wind. Because when I get to the top of the hill, I can smile and shake my head and turn around and look back down the hill and say that’s where I was and here’s where we’re at and we go from here. And you will never get to the top of the hill by singing a swan song and throwing in the towel. Not on my watch.