Really interesting topic, and one I’m keen to share my thoughts and experiences on.
I started throwing properly when I was around 29. I was always interested in throwing but always felt as an adult I should be doing adults things – I yoyo’d as a kid with my pro yo and omega, but never got good as you’d say. I currently work in the Financial Services sector, so most people I work with are quite middle class and have what I deem ‘grown up’ hobbies. Eventually I got to a stage in my life where I realised, I should just do the things I enjoy and want to do… this was in part driven by seeing my parents get older and losing a lot of their mobility and thus the ability to do the things they enjoy.
For the first couple of years I never told anyone I yoyo’d (fear of embarrassment, an adult using a kids toy). But again, as time ticked on I stopped caring. If my peers didn’t like me for my hobbies, then are they really people I want to associate me. It took me a short while before I ever shared a video of me throwing on social media, and if anything, I was surprised by the positive reaction. I guess people weren’t used to seeing a hobby they probably dabbled in as a child being taken to a more serious level.
Coming to the other point, adulthood has really put a time crunch on my social time. Work, domestic chores, a wife, and pets, all eat into the ability for me to switch off to focus on throwing. However, my biggest issue, I have too many hobbies which I skirt in-between. Rather than spending 5-8 hours a week throwing, it gets split across gaming, tennis, balisong, kendama, flying drones, etc. It’s made me realise that I will never grow quickly in any of these hobbies, but likewise, I don’t have the attention span to just focus on one. I’ve debated with myself whether I should reduce my interests so I can spend more time throwing, but I’m adamant I have ADD and would struggle just focusing on one hobby and burn myself out.
Where I’ve got to is trying not to stress everything. Being in my mid-30s, I’ve quickly realised I should just do what I enjoy. I’ve very jealous of those who can focus on one hobby and get fantastic at it (makes me jealous I didn’t start throwing in university when I had too much free time to hand). However, I’ve also realised I’m sketchy when sticking to hobbies, and often regret selling things I was interested in years ago (e.g. DJ equipment).
Well ramble over, but great thread as it’s got me really thinking about my own views on my hobbies (especially with kids on the horizon in maybe the next 2-3 years).