WHY???

[Samad]

@PHAZZE

Ummm… Ok I know a world more of information from the critical people here on the forums like Samad. ( no offense) look at him now he is a forum eXpert and yoyoing ninja!!! Would you take them seriously if they don’t use “tough love” to get you going? I find myself being more and more critical because it has helped ne in the past… If a post really makes you uncomfortable contact one of the sites administrators…

Not really. When I began forum eXpert, I was way nicer, way back then.

Good times… but I love the here and now as well

[Phazon_enhanced_yoyo (PHAZZE)]

@Samad

@PHAZZE

Ummm… Ok I know a world more of information from the critical people here on the forums like Samad. ( no offense) look at him now he is a forum eXpert and yoyoing ninja!!! Would you take them seriously if they don’t use “tough love” to get you going? I find myself being more and more critical because it has helped ne in the past… If a post really makes you uncomfortable contact one of the sites administrators…

Not really. When I began forum eXpert, I was way nicer, way back then.

Good times… but I love the here and now as well

would you say you were more or less helpful then or now?

[Xdohl (J. Lev)]

There’s something to be said here, not about this forum, just about life.

It’s all about how you say, not what you say.

If you suck, flat-out, genuinely, suck at something, and I go to you and say “You suck,” then that won’t make you any better, it’ll just get you down, and you’ll be discouraged.

If you suck, and I say to you, “Hey man, good try, I got a few ideas to make you better at it for next time (ideas go here)” then the person gets a few things:

1. Somebody cares. That’s a big deal, actually.
2. You can improve.
3. You have a reason to continue; to work on the skills or whatever that this mentor has given you.

You still suck either way. But the second way, you suck for a reason, and you’re going to stop sucking pretty darn quick.