Reconsider your position on Paypal is the first thing I’d say. It’s almost a necessity.
Also, number of posts means nothing. The “trade number” and their feedback is what is critical regarding trades.
Starting at zilch, you have to prove yourself. Somehow, people right off the bat trusted me for trades. I guess my reputation precedes me. At any rate, I came in as a BUYER, not a trader, and as such, I paid FIRST up front, then they shipped. I’ve had TWO exceptions, and both to the same person, whom I sent cash to for 2 separate purchases, one of which I just received earlier today as a matter of fact. The rest were Paypal.
As a buyer or trader, even a seller, if something smells fishy, abort, regroup and do not proceed. There may be a reason for your gut instincts. Trust it. For the most part, those on the BST are honest. Yes, there’s always some idiots to mess stuff up, that’s life. Read feedback, trust your guy feeling and if you need to talk to others, then do so. You’re either giving up hard earned cash or hardware for something. You might as well get what you paid for.
Also, there’s a couple of trends to be aware of:
1: Some people throw a crappy bearing in a good yoyo. I have spare bearings to deal with this. There’s often a reason why some yoyos are sold on BST, and they didn’t like the yoyo but liked the bearing. Bearings aren’t that expensive. It would be nice if people would be more up front. BTW, some sellers are up front about this. I bought a yoyo from Jayyo who flat out said what he had in the yoyo, which actually justified the lowered price he was selling it at. I bought a CLYW from someone who said they put in a YYF bearing in there.
2: People will get a yoyo that sent sent to them in mint/near mint condition, then beat it up and demand money back. This is a tough one to deal with.
Things to NOT complain about:
Strings, at least not the string in there. Some send worn out strings. Strings are cheap, move on.
Sometimes the response is worn or worn out. Big deal. Replace it.
Sometimes the silicone job is crap. Deal with it by redoing it or replacing it with a pre-made pad.
This TO complain about:
Things should be in the order described.
Deal sweeteners that were part of the agreement need to be honored. A deal is a deal. I’ve heard of strings not being sent, or a cheap “sweetener” yoyo, or cards or strings or a bearing or a spare axle or other little things. HONOR THE AGREEMENT.