I don’t collect them myself, but a good friend of mine does. She is trying to complete a full set (I don’t really understand it, to be honest), and I thought it might be helpful to ask around.
What are they looking for? I have a moderately good collection.
not completely sure, the set is called the “Scarlet & Violet Obsidian Flames”
I have a lot of those cards! What is she looking for from the set?
I’m getting a picture from her with a list of the ones she’s looking for and the ones she has dupes for soon
having some trouble linking the picture, try using this:
the ones that aren’t crossed out she is looking for, and all the ones with tally marks are dupes.
can you see it?
Nope, but I do play Pokemon Pocket if ppl need friends in that game.
can you open the doc? I just wanna make sure I linked it correctly
I need friends irl
It loaded!
Have you tried speaking to people? You can’t expect people to come up to you all the time, sometimes you need to approach them.
I understand that can be difficult, I myself am quite shy, but I’ve been working on training myself to be more out going, I guess.
Recently I’ve been trying to figure out how to go about doing this, I’ve started by figuring out how I can make other people excited to talk, giving them an opportunity to be more out going themselves, I try asking not things about themselves, but rather what they like to do—figure out what they are interested in, and you have a great start.
Suddenly, you now know one thing you can talk about with that person, eventually they will tire of this, and you can begin speaking about what you like to do, (tell them about Yo-Yos!)
And now, they know about you, and you know about them—now, this seems rather obvious, but just be yourself. By this I mean, acting like someone you aren’t will be very tiresome, be as you are! If they don’t like you, it’s their loss.
This is important—you have to be comfortable with yourself, you should not shape yourself into what you think they think you should be. Don’t be afraid to show your personality and what you like, if someone doesn’t like you for being yourself, they are not worth your time.
Once you are acting like yourself, and know what to talk about with certain people, you’re ready for the hard part: force yourself to speak to people, if you run out of things to talk about, and it gets kind of awkward, don’t walk away, find something new to talk about, it can be something boring like the weather, or your clothes, or your pets (I guess pets aren’t boring)
These simple topics often lead to deep, meaningful conversations, leading to close connections to these people, a.k.a. Friendship!
Forgive me if I missed anything, I’m a shy homeschooler who never goes anywhere but church, simply giving his $0.02.
Hope this helps!
anything you would like to trade?