Seriously? You posted this over 4 hours after I pmād you telling you the trade was off. You know calling it off had nothing to do with me being mad, hence this reply.
It had to do with you saying things like, and I quote, āI can probably ship tomorrowā, āIāll try to ship tomorrowā when ask for a ship date on your end. So I ask āI would rather ship at the same time so when are you sure you can ship?ā and you went silent.
Then a few minutes later you bumped the throw you had said was mine. 10 minutes or so goes by so I ask in your thread āwhatās upā since you still havenāt confirmed a ship time or answered pmās. Nothing. A few minutes later you went offline without an updated thread (which came hours later) so I decided I wasnāt trading with you and sent a pm saying so.
That pm was 4:51pm so you knew from then forward that the trade was off. Thatās why we had not exchanged addressās because I was waiting for you to commit to a ship date, which I think is perfectly acceptable imho before I mail out my end of the trade.
I wouldnāt tell anyone else how to handle their business, nor get mad at how they do. I can only decide how I will handle my business. Same as defending myself here to your accusation of me being āmadā as Iām not mad at all. Just decided that I was not willing to trade without more clear terms.
I usually donāt mark things gone until Iāve shipped them, and as you said, it hadnāt been finalized yet. But whatevs, itās all good. I guess I could start marking things āpending.ā
Iām sorry if you feel I have wronged you, I really am, I guess I just didnāt think it was a big deal.
A lot of times, too, Iām online but not actively checking things, Iāll have YYE open in the background.
Soooo, yeah, hope thereās no hard feelings on your part, because I really had no intention of wronging you in any way, shape, or form.
Again, it had nothing to do with you bumping your thread as said. This is so simple itās funny! It had to do with you stopping communication right in the middle of the deal, not bumping your thread. I was just including the fact you bumped your thread on top of that while still ignoring what was the wrap up of our pm conversation. Just a timeline reference so to speak (which was totally missed) and not the main point. If we were on the phone you basically hung up on me when asked to give a confirmed ship date. So after that I decided I didnāt want to trade. I told you in pm hours before you posted āOr maybe not, he seems to be madā¦ā. You knew the deal was already off but posted otherwise, fine.
No hard feelings at all. These are my decisions and arenāt dependent on you nor personal. I would cancel a trade with anyone who handled their business this way with me, simple as that.
