Hello. I recently traded with a user named sneezing unicorn. at first all was well. We agreed on what to trade and when to trade (we agreed two or so times, both of us pushing the date to ship back). When i finnally shipped, I gave him the tracking and when i asked for mine, he said he didnt’ have it. I expressed discomfert with this and he replied with excused like “I’m a forgetful soul” and “I like to live life on the edge with no recpets”.
With this all said, i was stern that i REALLY needed that tracking number as i feel I’ being ripped off at this point. He emailed me the tracking number shortly after that. All was well when i received the package, when i opened it and found it wasn’t mine. It was ment for someone else. I emailed him and for a while, he was very apologetic and wanting to work this out. He even got me in contact with the other guy. We were discussing what to do, him proposing to meet up as we didn’t live that far away. long story short on that, they thought i lived closer to the city i listed, where i actually lived within the limits, about 20 or so minutes away from the city.
then, when i told i couldn’t ship that day or meet up (had exams, couldn’t do 2 hours on the road) or ship till tuesday, he became VERY hostile to me, saying things like “You need to send him his stuff or send it to me.” indicating today or tomorrow.
When i tried to explain why i couldn’t meet or ship until tuesday, he wrote back with
"Dude. I thanks to your difficulty it is our problem. Not mine alone. And as far as I’m concerned yoh have 50$ worth of metal you didn’t pay for. So. I dont care what your life revolves around You need to tell him when he’s getting his shit and be an adult. When and how is none of my concern at this point I’m officially leaving you “to be the bigger man”
Then “Lol okay. Like I said I really don’t care anymore. Send him his shit and he’ll send you yours and all will be well. Tell him when you’re sending it and work the rest out… if you don’t work yourself up in the process. You’re the one coming to assumptions about sketchy vibes and yet in contradiction can’t seem to be straight forward yourself. Work out a trade with a more reasonable fellow with a box of yoyos soon to have your name on it. Send him shit. Get yours. The end.”
I have spoken with the man who got my package and i had his, and we working things out rather swimmingly, almost within an hour or so. sneezingunicorn has made no contact to either of us, nor try to compensate for the money we will have to pay out of our pocket to ship again. I have posted him a negative feedback (obviously) and he has posted one back, out of sheer retaliation and anger, nothing else. It even goes on to talk about things which i had no history of talking about those topics with him (something about bearings and reviews? Can’t make sense of it)
I would love to go into more detail, even get sneezing unicorn in on this, because i do not think i deserve this negative feed back. (the only wrongs believe i have done are 1. I did open up and threw the yoyo that was not mine twice (Sneezing unicorn said “that’s fine” in the emails" and the person who was going to get the yoyo had said “jelious you got to throw it first, but i understand.” and 2. not shipping INSTANTANEOUSLY which i don’t think its fair that i had to adjust my plans of leaving town and possibly miss my bus to fix a mistake that wasn’t mine, and the person who got my throws agreed to ship on an easier day.So in my mind, both wrongs were towards the other person in this trade, not sneezingunicorn, therefor do not deserve the negative from him)